There are two things I think about most when I think about Jods.
First, it is that big smile on his face. You know that BIG welcoming smile that was pure joy (if you are reading this, you know; but you probably want to see it again, so see below). Especially the one when he walked into a room or when he would greet you walking in. That big smile you have all seen and the ensuing hug like it was years since the last time you hung out (even though it was likely less than 24 hours from the previous hang).
Second, is that he was the best to talk with. Man I miss talking with Jods. Especially pre and post concert. Just the best. World class listener and he had great insights and takes (as long as it wasn’t about rum…). And it was everything: Music/TV/Movies/Concerts/Food/Whatever was going on at the bar/Politics/Parenting/Life…
I know I shared this at the Jody Jam, but I will put it here as well from one of my earliest Jod memories:
I met Jody roughly back in the mid 2000s. One of my earliest memories of Jody was when we were hanging out at Micah’s post college frat house on Beach St. There was about a month stretch when someone (Jody? Or Fraser? Or both…) would bring the full Rock Band game over. We would play until roughly 4am. Bc why not. And of course this included weekdays. Bc why not. And I remember having one of those late night talks with Jody and found out two things 1. He was Married (sup Sal) and 2. Had a kid (sup Avery). THIS. BROKE. MY. BRAIN. I was in my mid 20s and who was this “old dude” hanging as late as possible; who was MARRIED; and had a KID. Frankly it breaks my brain even more now. But that was Jody; hangin out, having fun and living while also being an incredible dad (sup Avery and Jackson).
Although not Jewish, I believe there is a Yiddish word that best describes Jody-Mensch: This is essentially, a good human. That’s Jody and of course all with that big smile on his face.
I miss you bro. I love you.
From one Mensch to another. He was in such great company